Hey there, welcome back to the second and final part of this open letter..
If you missed Part 1 CLICK HERE
Shall we dive straight in?
OK, so what happened to Helen and Julian?
Well, within 6 months Helen divorced Julian right out of the blue…
She said she loved him, but wasn’t “in love” with him anymore…
How often have you heard that excuse?
But guess what is worse.
Maybe you already guessed it…
Well, she did. Helen ended up with her boss Derek. She “started” dating him, and ended up marrying him pretty quickly.
Now, this story is far more common than people realize. Or care to admit…
I know it makes some people mad.
But it is what it is.
Perhaps a result of this ever changing environment of role reversal.
I know when I was growing up, this would be unheard of.
But is more and more common today…
My question to you is this:
What do you think Julian should have done differently?
Here’s what I think…
You might not agree…
You might have to be in Julian’s shoes for you to understand what I’m going to explain to you now…
In my opinion, as someone who has been in my fair share of broken relationships, and from growing up, until now, I seem to be the go-to-guy for many of my mates with relationship problems…
I don’t know what it is…
I don’t know why they always seem to come to me…
It’s not like I ever advertise the fact that I can help them with their relationship problems…
But I do remember it started in my first year of high school.
I think it was because I was forced to grow up so much quicker than my friends at school…
Unfortunately, my parents were the first to divorce out of all my friends, so I had to grow up the quickest…
Perhaps this is why I’ve always been the wise ol’ owl for people to air their grievances during their most difficult relationships problems…
I don’t mind. In fact I actually like it.
If I can be of use when friends are going through a really difficult time in their lives, then that’s really special.
Well, my advice to Julian was that the only thing he could have done was to make himself more ‘high value’ than his wife’s boss.
That’s it…
Think of it from Helen’s position…
How cool is it for Helen to introduce Julian to her high flying friends and social circle as “this is my stay at home dad husband”?
He doesn’t work. He does chores around the house. He does the cooking. He cleans.
Might sound good to some people I suppose.
But it can also be a recipe for disaster..
And the one thing Julian could have done while working at home is to start his own business.
Any business.
But if he had started something. Worked hard at it. Succeeded to where his wife didn’t have to work anymore. Chances are, she wouldn’t have lost her attraction and respect for Julian.
We’ll never know of course.
But I know for sure…
The guys I know who have dug deep, started their own business and put their heart and soul into it, almost all turned out with better relationships, than those that did nothing.
Moral of the story?
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